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>> Sunday, October 30, 2011
A Guiding Life
stat·ic
/ˈstætɪk/ Show Spelled[stat-ik]adjective1.pertaining to or characterized by a fixed or stationary condition.2.showing little or no change3.lacking movement, development, or vitality
No, I've not suddenly gone all clever on you, read on.
The Victoria and Albert have a photography exhibition on at the moment which we stood and looked at for some time. I looked and I mused. I look again, really hard this time, but I really don't get a lot of the modern artistry. Actually, I do get it, and I really like it but what I don't get is why some make it big and others don't.
Go look at the 3rd Photo down in this blog post. That picture is better than the majority of the V&A exhibition.
There was a very clever photo of some tweezers, but what made it clever was the description attached to it. And this, my dear friends, appears to be the difference between a heralded artist in the art world and the rest.
This week's Gallery is Faces. I spotted these people making the most of the winter sun at Walsingham.
That is how content I want to be in the winter of my life.
I sat watching the runners on the South Bank, near the London Eye. Sometimes I think it might be quite exciting to run somewhere cool and vibrant. Not so 'boring country cousin'.
Aren't the balls in the middle supposed to be shared between the 2 lanes?
I told you that there is a flasher in my walking/running area, well PR moves quickly these days* I have been sent 2 personal alarms by The HandPicked Collection to try.
Flashers aren't really the harmless raincoated dirty old man laughing matter we imagine. This is a quote I found the the American Department of Justice: "...rapists average seven victims before their first arrest, and most flashers (exhibitionists) and window-peepers are (or eventually become) rapists."
Generally advice is to get away as quickly as possible without reacting at all. If the flasher approaches then you should "scream for help and run toward safety". Now I don't think I can really scream and run fast at the same time. Which is why this Ila Dusk Personal Alarm is absolutely fantastic, it does the screaming for you for up to 8 minutes. It is seriously loud.
Working Mum on the Verge has had some problems with her daughter's brownie pack which has prompted a flurry of blogging Guiders to offer her some words of support.
Do you know that moment when time stands still as you look at your hand and think:
"there's a knife in there, shouldn't that be hurting or bleeding"
Top Tips:
When cutting the outside off a pumpkin whilst talking to child with the largest, sharpest knife you have....look at the knife not the child.
At the point when the blood starts to spurt....move hand away from cooking
Do not under any circumstances use the most versatile word in the English language to describe to child the pain....I'm just relieved she didn't respond with use number 22.
You cannot open a plaster tin with only one hand. You cannot cut steri-strips with one hand. You cannot peel a plaster with one hand...You can look a complete idiot trying to do all 3.
I had a delivery during the day. She came home from school and immediately played with the box, not at all interested in the delivery!
This week's Gallery is Inspirational People.
I first learnt about Mary Macarthur at the Black Country Working Museum. Mary Macarthur was fighting for women's rights at the time of the suffragettes. She led the 1910 chainmakers’ 10 week strike in Cradley Heath that won a battle to establish the right to a fair wage.
Mary Macarthur fought for our rights by founding, supporting and spending her life in the cause of Trade Unions. She was a tireless worker that fought hard against the system of the day and it is very much because of her that I can go to work today and have a right to stand side by side with the men.
The announcement on the train was:
"East Midlands Trains apologise to anyone who had a reserved seat in Coach B. There is no Coach B on this train. The coaches on this train are A,C,D,E,F. The quiet coach can be found at....."
Hmmmm, interesting, Coach B obviously slipped away there...but hang on there's more...
"East Midlands Trains apologise that there is no buffet cart on this train"
ahhhh, presumably that was in Coach B then.....sigh
....and how I wish that the smug arse guy with his carry on coffee would spill it down him right now...but I'm not bitter...
In February I posted about the murder by a fellow prisoner of Colin Hatch. I felt no sorrow.
In fact I said "I wonder if they could put the same prisoner next to Ian Huntley's cell". Someone had a damn good go at him once too." Well it turns out it was the same guy.
The BBC report says "Prosecutors described how Fowkes, who the court heard showed "strong psychopathic traits", chased Huntley around the healthcare unit at the jail, brandishing a weapon."
I'm sure he does have psychopathic traits but to be perfectly honest I think I could chase Huntley around brandishing a weapon.
Let's not forget this was said about Hatch:
"Det Supt Duncan Macrae, who led the murder inquiry, described Hatch at the time as a frighteningly cunning criminal. He had pulled the wool over the eyes of the authorities and would kill again if he was ever released, Mr Macrae said."
So again I weep no tears but what strikes me as most odd is having tried to kill Huntley, why was Fowkes put within striking distance of another target. Why did they put an attempted child murderer murderer with another child murderer.
But then perhaps the very nature of many of the criminals in the high security prisons means that there are very high risks for those most despised for the very worst of crimes. This week Mitchell Harrison was found dead and disemboweled in another prison here. He was only serving 4½ years for raping a 13 year old girl.
There truly are some dreadful people in this world. Abusers, murderers and vigilantes all.
This week's Gallery is 'Colour' - I've chosen Pearl
Yesterday I was feeling a bit like this. I really appreciate all your concern and comments.
I'm finding my work really hard right now. I'm having to do a lot of things I'm not trained to do at short notice with unforgiving management. This week got progressively harder with a weekend implementation looming of something I wasn't 100% confident with on a mission critical system. Stress is my work life.
By the time I left on Friday I was having palpitations and kept bursting into tears on my drive home. I am sorry to say that at one point I frightened myself by considering death as a way out of not having to work the weekend. Neither COG or HWMBO seemed to matter, nothing mattered except how the hell to get through this weekend with a system and my dignity intact.
The only thing that kept me here was a little voice on my shoulder saying "this too shall pass". I so desperately wanted to be here, Sunday evening with a running service.
I have had no sleep, a pounding chest, I've been sick, unable to eat...when is it time to shout STOP.
I tried to tell HWMBO how dreadful I felt, how even suicide is an option. I'm not sure he completely heard me, it's been an important weekend for him in the footy world...so I soldiered on.
Like a robot I worked Saturday evening, lay awake most of the night and got up at 5:30am on Sunday to start again. With the first system crash at 7:30 my hands were shaking.
Only a few years back I was responsible for a service significantly more important than this one, it transacted billions of pounds nightly. I was never this stressed about them. The difference : supportive management and an interested ear at home. Now I'm very much on my own in all things.
So here I am Sunday evening, it's over, but I'm still only just coming down. The worst thing that could of happened is that it all failed horrendously, it would have been the hardest work ever to put it back together, I could have tendered my resignation, but a job shouldn't feel this stressful should it, not when it's something I actually like doing.
Maybe I'm too old a dog now to learn new tricks, maybe the working environment I'm in stinks, maybe HWMBO just doesn't care the way he used to.
Ack, I'm just moaning...this too shall pass.
I love the lines in this field, great shapes.
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